If you like milfs, I don't need to tell you how much fun you can have with someone a decade or two older than you!
In fact, relationships with milfs are not that unusual!
Many women 30 and older have a strong sex drive and like to sleep with younger men!
Sex with an older woman will be very different from sex with someone closer to your age.
Whether you're dating a mature woman or just want to have a one night stand, you're probably wondering how to get it on and how to have better sex with older women!
Just as no two relationships are the same, there is no one-size-fits-all for better sex with older women!
Your technique with any woman will vary depending on your ages, past experiences, sex drive and preferences.
In general, one of the best things you can do is to listen and communicate!
The main goal is to have intimate experiences that are satisfying for both of you!
It doesn't matter if you are looking for a one-night stand or a long-term relationship with a milf. Having good sex with older women is all about understanding what she wants and learning to please her! Here are guaranteed ways to get laid and have sex with a milf:
Communication is the be-all and end-all
Communication is everything at the beginning, during and after sex!
This is because women are very emotional! For us men it's simple. We see a girl and we know within seconds if we want to have sex with her and we are ready for sex immediately!
This also applies to the women we meet on dating apps or to those we meet in person.
There are some milfs like adventure and casual relationships! But if you're only interested in just having sex and that's it, she may have something completely different in mind. She probably wants a long-term, exclusive relationship or she may want more than a one-night stand. In addition to great sex, this means she may be looking for an emotional connection.
So, how do you know if a milf is looking for something casual, serious or something in between? Contact her!
With this in mind, read how to communicate before, during and after sex...
Communication before sex:
1. Ask her open questions about her tastes, experiences, dreams and adventures
2. Look her in the eye during the conversation
3. Keep the conversation focused on her, talk about experiences and stories from your life after she tells you something about her life
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Communication during sex:
1. Talk dirty to her
2. Sigh slightly to show her that you like something
3. Ask her if she likes what you do
4. Give her instructions at the right time (e.g. slower, faster, etc.)
5. Look into her eyes
Communication after sex:
1. Ask her which positions she likes best in bed! Explaining that you would like to please her even more next time.
2. Ask her about a sexual fantasy she has and be willing to share one of your own.
3. In essence, the goal is to show her that you don't judge her for having sex with you or for liking sex in general.
4. The other thing to keep in mind is that although many milfs have sex drives, not all of them need to be like that.
In some cases, a woman may have sex with younger men but either have sex three times a day or only three times a week.
As women get older, their hormones change. Communication is key to figuring out where she is, as well as whether she wants to have sex with you! Respect each other's wishes!
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The man dominant and dynamic
The idea of dominance can be very important for great sex with older women!
At any age, many women like to be dominated, especially during sex!
Take initiatives during the day!
Many attractive mature women have taken control of their careers and have high control of their lives in general (compared to younger women who don't yet know what they want out of life).
They enjoy having that control. But in the bedroom, they want to feel the opposite!
They want to be able to let go completely and feel that the man is in total control!
This requires you to be confident in what you do during sex and to be extremely dominant!
When you take control in sex, you show your masculine side (arousal, leadership, power)!
This allows her to be submissive and get closer to her feminine energy (sensitivity, sensuality, vulnerability)!
When she trusts that she is being taken care of by her masculine lover, she can indulge in 100% and then she is more likely to experience her most intense orgasms!
Most women prefer to have this role in a relationship and in the bedroom. On the other hand, there are exceptions, some women love to dominate men!
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According to a study, milfs are turning to younger men for sex because they have failed to get older lovers to dominate them! Mature women find younger men more willing to follow this pattern!
For this reason, they are more likely to have intense orgasms with a young man than with someone their own age!
If the older woman you are dating wants to be bossy in bed let her do it!
The dominant role does not have to be the same every time. You can switch it up depending on the mood!
When she is in control, follow her instructions and show her what you can do!
Milf women know if you are great at sex and they also know when you need improvement.
Plus, they are not afraid to tell you what you can do better (whereas a younger woman might leave it alone or simply not pay attention to the details).
Therefore, you must be open-minded, let go of your ego and be willing to accept and take their advice.
It will be a huge win for you in the long run!
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How to dominate as a man with a milf
Throw her on the bed.
Women love sex as much as men do. But many prefer when men initiate the action in the bedroom. This is your first opportunity to take on the role of the dominant male, allowing her to step into the preferred role of submissive femininity. Lead her into the bedroom, throw her on the bed and start ripping her clothes off!
Pick it up.
If it is small you can easily move it to the bedroom! This is another move that can show off your masculine dominance! If you can push her against her bedroom wall and kiss her passionately!
Watch her.
Watch what happens when you push a woman against the wall or throw her on the mattress during foreplay. Many will see the excitement.
Don't ask her if she likes it.
Suppose she likes it, but watch how she reacts. If you feel physical resistance or see nervousness in her eyes or have any other indication that she doesn't like it, back off.
Don't ask her to do sex positions.
Move her to the positions you want her to be in so she can enjoy the experience!
Pull her hair.
Grab her hair by the roots and pull it back slightly. This shouldn't hurt her but at the same time she should feel the pull!
Squeeze her neck.
What we do know is that the majority of women like you to put your arm around their neck and lightly choke them. Put your hand there lightly at first and if she doesn't show resistance, then go a little harder. Lightly at first though, at least the first time, and then ask her if she likes being choked! If she says yes, then you can do it more aggressively next time (just remember to be careful with that)!
Hit her.
You'd be surprised how many women enjoy this. Some proudly show you your handprints on their ass!
Tell her what to say.
Tell her to call out your name or call you by dominant nicknames like "Master" or "Master". Make her beg you to play harder games for her! Most women will love this because that she is dominated by her male lover!
To make this absolutely clear, all these actions must be carried out in a consensual act of love, security, trust.
The point is to dominate women in a way they enjoy, not to perform sexual acts against their will.
Compliment
From the moment you meet an older woman to the moment you have sex, trust is key.
Regardless of the age of the woman you are having sex with, you should always do your best to make her feel confident! It's essential if you want to get an older woman into bed!
Several mature women feel good about their bodies and may even be more willing to walk around naked after sex. And yet, affirmation is never a bad practice!
If you tell her what you love about her body, it will make her feel more comfortable and confident in bed! Even a simple "You're so sexy" or "I can't get enough of you" will elevate her!
