If you like milfs, I don't need to tell you how much fun you can have with someone a decade or two older than you!
Actually, relationships with milfs are not that uncommon!
Many women in their 30s and above have a strong sex drive and like to sleep with younger men!
Sex with an older woman will be very different than with someone closer to your age.
Whether you're dating a mature woman, or just want to have a one night stand, you're probably wondering how to get her and how to have better sex with older women!
Just as no relationship is the same, there is no one-size-fits-all approach to better sex with older women!
Your technique with any woman will vary depending on your ages, past experiences, sex drive and preferences.
In general, one of the best things you can do is listen and communicate!
The main goal is to have intimate experiences that are satisfying for both of you!
It doesn't matter if you're looking for a one-night stand or a long-term relationship with a MILF. Having good sex with older women is all about understanding what she wants and learning to please her! Here are guaranteed ways to bang and have sex with a milf:
Communication is everything
Communication is everything at the beginning, during and after sex!
This is because women are very emotional! For us men it's simple. We see a girl and know within seconds if we want to have sex with her and we are ready for sex right away!
This also applies to women we meet on dating apps or with those we know in real life.
There are some milfs who like adventure and casual relationships! But if you're only interested in having sex and that's it, she might have something completely different in mind. He may want a long-term, exclusive relationship, or he may want more than a one-night stand. In addition to great sex, this means she may be looking for an emotional connection.
So, how do you know if a milf is looking for something casual, serious, or something in between? Contact her!
With that in mind, read up on how to communicate before, during and after sex…
Communication before sex:
1. Ask her open-ended questions about her likes, experiences, dreams and adventures
2. Look her in the eye during the conversation
3. Keep the conversation focused on her, talk about experiences and stories from your life after she tells you something about her life
Martha, a 30-year-old Greek amazon
Communication during sex:
1. Talk dirty to her
2. Sigh slightly to show her you like something
3. Ask her if she likes what you're doing
4. Give her instructions at the right time (eg slower, faster, etc.)
5. Look her in the eyes
Contact after sex:
1. Ask her what positions she likes best in bed! Explaining to her that you would like to thank her even more next time.
2. Ask her about a sexual fantasy she has and be willing to share one of your own.
3. Basically, the goal is to show her that you're not judging her for having sex with you or liking sex in general.
4. The other thing to keep in mind is that even though many milfs have sex drives, not all of them have to.
In some cases, a woman may have sex with younger men but either have sex three times a day or only three times a week.
As women age, their hormones change. Communication is key to understanding where he is, as well as whether he wants to have sex with you! Respect each other's wishes!
Also, if you want to try safe with milfs, you can find escorts and start the phase with them!
The man dominant and dynamic
The idea of dominance can be very important for great sex with older women!
At any age, many women like to be dominated, especially during sex!
Take initiatives during the day!
Many attractive mature women have taken control of their careers and are in high control of their lives in general (versus younger women who don't yet know what they want out of life).
They enjoy having that control. But in the bedroom they want to feel the opposite!
They want to be able to let go completely and feel like the man is in total control!
This requires you to be confident about what you are going to do in sex and to be extremely dominant!
When you take control in sex, you show your masculine side (possession, leadership, strength)!
This allows her to be submissive and approach her feminine energy (sensitivity, sensuality, vulnerability)!
When she trusts that her masculine lover is taking care of her, she can let go 100% and then she is more likely to experience her most intense orgasms!
Most women prefer to have this role in a relationship and in the bedroom. On the other hand, there are exceptions, some women love to dominate men!
Your dominant, dynamic and mentor woman
According to a study, milfs are turning to younger men for sex because they haven't been able to get older lovers to dominate them! Mature women find young men more willing to follow this pattern!
For this reason, they are more likely to have intense orgasms with a youth than with a peer!
If the older woman you're dating wants to be bossy in bed, let her be!
The dominant role does not have to be the same every time. You can switch depending on the mood!
When she's in charge, follow her lead and show her what you can do!
Milfs know if you're great at sex, and they also know when you need improvement.
Plus, they're not afraid to tell you what you can do better (whereas a younger woman might leave it at that or just not pay attention to the details).
So you have to be open minded, let go of your ego and be willing to accept and accept their advice.
It will be a huge win for you in the long run!
Gabriela, voluptuous 30-something Russian
How to dominate as a man with a milf
Throw her on the bed.
Women love sex just like men. But many prefer when men initiate the action in the bedroom. This is your first opportunity to assume the role of dominant male, allowing her to step into the preferred role of submissive femininity. Lead her to the bedroom, throw her on the bed and start ripping her clothes off!
Pick her up.
If she is petite, you can easily carry her to the bedroom! This is another move that can show off your masculine dominance! If you can push her against her bedroom wall and kiss her passionately!
Watch her.
Watch what happens when you push a woman against the wall or throw her on the mattress during foreplay. Many will see the excitement.
Don't ask her if she likes it.
Let's assume she likes it, but watch how she reacts. If you feel physical resistance or see nervousness in her eyes or any other indication that she's not into you, back off.
Don't ask her to pause during sex.
Move her to the positions you want so she can enjoy the experience!
Pull her hair.
Grab her hair by the roots and gently pull it back. This should not hurt her but at the same time she should feel the pull!
She squeezed her neck.
What we do know is that the majority of women like to put your arm around their neck and lightly choke them. Put your hand in there lightly at first and if there is no resistance then go a little harder. At first lightly though, at least the first time, and then he asked her if she likes to be choked! If she says yes, then you can do it more aggressively next time (just remember to be careful with it)!
Hit her.
You'd be surprised how many women enjoy this. Some proudly show you your handprints on their ass!
Tell her what to say.
Tell her to call your name or call you dominant nicknames like "Master" or "Teacher." Make her beg you to play harder games for her! Most women will love this because she is dominated by her male lover!
To make this absolutely clear, all these actions must be done in a consensual act of love, safety, trust.
The point is to dominate women in a way they enjoy, not to perform sexual acts against their will.
Give compliments
From the moment you meet an older woman to the moment you have sex, trust is key.
Regardless of the age of the woman you're having sex with, you should always do your best to make her feel confident! It's essential if you want to get an older woman in bed!
Many mature women feel good about their bodies and may be even more willing to walk around naked after sex. And yet, confirmation is never a bad practice!
Telling her what you love about her body will make her feel more comfortable and confident in bed! Even a simple "You're so sexy" or "I can't get enough of you" will lift her up!
