What is it?
The anal sex is not only related to the penetration of the penis into the anus.
Anal intercourse is associated with fingering, the use of sexual aids and anal intercourse. It is known as rimming or anilingus and in slang as "sucking ass".
It is aimed at gay, bisexual, lesbian and of course straight people.
Anatomy
The abundance of nerve endings in the anal and rectal area favors anal pleasure for both women and men.
There are two muscles in the anal area, called sphincters.
The external muscle contracts at will. While the inner muscle does not contract automatically, without our will.
If you insert a finger about 1.5 cm and press your finger to one side, you will be able to feel both clamps. There is less than a centimetre between them.
The internal sphincter, which is involuntarily controlled, is the one that responds to fear and anxiety during anal sex.
This will result in it tightening automatically, even if it is assumed that you have relaxed.
And that will inevitably create pain.
Taboo
Taboos make people of both sexes resist it, although in recent years there has been a de-legitimisation of anal sex.
It is quite popular among heterosexual men and even heterosexual women say yes to anal sex.
However, many consider this sport unnatural, perverse and dirty.
In earlier times it was a way to keep virginity intact. The visas don't have such problems, as you can understand.
How is it done in a safe way?
Condom use is not just recommended, it is required.
The tissue of the rectum is thinner than the vagina and does not have the same elasticity.
As a result, they can easily be injured and through a microscopic hole or slit in the anal tissue any sexually transmitted disease can easily pass directly into the bloodstream.
Or another case of infection is through the opening at the top of the penis (urethra) or through a scratch, cut or wound on the penis.
The STIs that can be transmitted during unprotected anal sex are:
HIV (AIDS)
HPV (Warts)
Chlamydia
Genital herpes
Gonorrhea
Syphilis
It is very important not to enter the penis into the vagina with the condom that has been preceded by anal penetration.
The condom will need to be changed for the switch to take place.
It is also equally important that there is no oral contact with the finger that was previously inside the anus.
The use of condoms is also recommended for anal sex toys.
How to do it with less pain
Your partner tried it once, twice or even three times and it was a complete failure for her. She now has an aversion to anal and has associated it with pain.
Indeed, it is painful when done the wrong way.
Tips
1. Preparation
Before proceeding with the penetration you can prepare the ground with preparatory work.
Oral sex will help a lot, as will fingering.
It is not necessary that the penetration be made on the very first attempt.
It would be good to prepare the ground with erotic aids and without forcing the situation.
An extra tip is for the recipient of anal sex to prepare for penetration while in the shower or while masturbating by putting a finger on the affected area.
2. Take it easy...
There is no room for haste or pressure here. If your partner doesn't want it, you don't insist.
But if he shows interest, then you need to be patient.
Violent movements and impatience will result in painful contact that will create a negative atmosphere regarding anal.
So, there will be no receptivity for another attempt and very likely to cause injury.
During penetration, the penis should enter slowly. As slowly as possible and when it is now entirely inside, make slow thrusts.
Even when it comes out of the anus, it should be done slowly, as when it entered. It doesn't matter if you're with whore in Athens.
Ideally, we let the partner guide the penis.
It is achieved by grasping the penis from the base, after having smeared both the anus and the penis with plenty of lubricant and slowly penetrating with the hand as a guide.
You stay still and the movements are determined by the partner according to his/her strength.
Remember that there is no right and wrong attitude.
Experimentation will help you find it.
Equally it is important to be relaxed throughout the procedure to avoid pain.
Tightness, anxiety and fear will make intercourse more difficult and negate the pleasure.
3. Lubricant
The use of a water-based lubricant will smooth the anal and provide the pleasure that you both seek.
4. Irritation
Pain is a deterrent. That's why irritation always works in favor.
Deal with the genitals and erogenous areas of the body while the whole act of anal is going on.
5. Contact
Speak up and express yourself. Express to your other half your fears or the way you would like to be. Don't do anything by force to avoid spoiling favors or because pressure is being received.
Hygiene
The Alpha and Omega of anal sex.
Shower before and after and make sure that before anal sex, you have visited the toilet and emptied the bowel contents.
For extra safety and to avoid the unexpected, use an enema before anal sex.
