What is ;
The anal sex it is not only related to the penetration of the penis into the anus.
Anal intercourse is associated with fingering, the use of sexual aids and anal intercourse. Known as rimming or anilingus and in slang as "glyphocoli".
Aimed at gay, bisexual, lesbian and of course straight.
Anatomy
The abundance of nerve endings in the anal and rectal area favors anal pleasure for both women and men.
There are two muscles in the anal area, called sphincters.
The external muscle contracts voluntarily. While the interior does not shrink automatically, without our will.
If you put a finger about 1,5 inches and press your finger to one side, you will be able to feel both clamps. There is a distance of less than one centimeter between them.
An involuntary tightening of the internal sphincter is one that responds to fear and anxiety during anal sex.
This will cause it to tighten automatically, even if you are considered to have relaxed.
And this will fatally create pain.
Taboo
Taboos make people of both sexes resist it, although in recent years there has been a reward for anal sex.
It is quite popular with them heterosexual men and even heterosexual women say yes to anal sex.
However, many consider this sport unnatural, perverted and dirty.
In earlier years it was a way to keep one's virginity intact. The businessmen they don't have such problems as you understand..
How is it done safely?
The use of a condom is not recommended, it is necessary.
The rectal tissue is thinner than the vagina and does not have the same elasticity.
As a result, they can be easily injured and through a microscopic hole the slit of anal tissue can easily pass any sexually transmitted disease directly into the bloodstream.
The other case of infection is through the opening in the top of the penis (urethra) or through scratching, cutting or wound in the penis.
The STDs that can be transmitted during unprotected anal sex are:
HIV (AIDS)
HPV (Warts)
Chlamydia
Genital herpes
Gonorrhea
Syphilis
It is very important that the penis does not enter the vagina with the condom that has been inserted before.
The condom will need to be changed to make the switch.
It is also equally important not to have oral contact with the finger that was previously inside the anus.
The use of a condom is also recommended for anal sex toys.
How to do it with less pain
Your partner tried it once, twice or even three times and it was a complete failure for her. He now has an aversion to anal and has associated it with pain.
Indeed, it is painful to do so in the wrong way.
Tips
1. Preparation
Before proceeding with the penetration you can prepare the soil in advance.
Oral sex will help a lot, as will fingering.
It is not necessary for the intrusion to take place from the very first attempt.
It would be good to prepare the ground with love aids and without pressing the situation.
An extra tip is for the anal sex receiver to prepare for penetration while in the shower or while masturbating by pointing a finger at the affected area.
2. Take it easy...
There is no room for haste or pressure here. If your partner doesn't want to, you don't insist.
But if it is interesting, then you need to be patient.
Violent moves and impatience will result in painful contact that will create a negative climate for anal.
Thus, there will be no receptivity for another attempt and it is very likely that an injury will occur.
When penetrating, the penis should enter slowly. As slowly as possible and when he is now completely inside, to make slow pushes.
Even when exiting the anus, it should be done slowly, as when it entered. It doesn't matter if you're me whores in Athens.
Ideally, we let the partner guide the penis.
It is achieved by grasping the penis from the base, after both the anus and the penis have been smeared with plenty of lubricant and a slow penetration is done with the hand as a guide.
Stay still and the movements are determined by the partner according to his stamina.
Remember that there is no right or wrong attitude.
Experimentation will help you find it.
Equally It is important to be relaxed throughout the procedure to avoid pain.
Tightening, stress and fear will make it difficult to make contact and eliminate pleasure.
3. Lubricant
The use of water-based lubricant will smooth the anal and provide it pleasure which you are both looking for.
4. Irritation
Pain works as a deterrent. That's why irritation always works in favor.
Deal with the genitals and the erogenous zones of the body while the whole operation of the anus is done.
5. Communication
Speak and express yourself. In the other half, express your phobias or the way you would like it to be. Do not do anything by force so as not to spoil the crap or why you are under pressure.
Hygiene
The A and O of anal sex.
Take a shower before and after and make sure that before anal sex, you have visited the toilet and emptied the contents of the intestine.
For extra security and to avoid the unexpected, prefer to use an enema before anal sex.
