So far we have shared with you several love stories from call girls.
Today's story is a little different. It doesn't have sex, but it describes what it's like to be a student and escort.
We spoke to Alexia, 23 years old, a student from Greece. She told us her story and we share it with you.
When I entered the profession my life turned upside down and I mean that in the best possible way. I was a first year student, my financial situation was disgraceful and I had no way to survive. I had to find a way to make money so that I could continue my studies properly and have a good life.
If someone would ask me then (and now) what is the ideal job for meI'd say I want it to be part-time, or generally have flexible working hoursto be able to offer me enough money, not to force me to be permanently confined to one place, to love me and to make me at the same time having a good time and to give me the opportunity to interact with different people.
Of course when I was thinking about all this, I was laughing at myself, because I thought it was something completely utopian that was not going to happen. I thought it was impossible! Turns out, of course, it's not.
4+ years later it still blows my mind that what I had in mind actually worked. I finished school with no hassle and no money owed to anyone. Psychologically I am better than ever and the quality of my life has changed for the better since I entered the profession.
I'm glad for the choice I made back then and I don't regret it for a second!
I have changed myself and I have evolved naturally both as a person and as a professional. My perspective has changed and I have matured and I think that has an impact on my work. I think the programme I offer now is much better. In general, I find that the experience a client has with me now is excellent.
I plunged into a sea that I had no idea how deep it was, where it might take me, what the weather would be like, and whether I would be able to swim. What I finally learned is that I love this sea!
I learned a lot through my work. It is a strange but beautiful world at the same time. Obviously your experiences aren't always good, but you learn over the years to sort through and keep the beautiful ones and the ones that have something to teach you!
I am now doing my Master's degree and continuing the same work!
I continue to enjoy it. I meet interesting, curious, different, unique people. I offer and they offer me enjoyment. It fills me with experiences! Now for me it's not just a profession, it's a way of life!
But what was it like in the beginning?
When I first started I had no idea what I was doing! I was scared and when I went to my first client, my legs were cut off. I was embarrassed, I was almost terrified. The second meeting was more relaxed, the third was much easier, the fourth was the same... So I took it from there and started learning from each experience and trying to improve my services and myself! Piece by piece then, I arrived at today. On a personal, but also on a professional level.
The challenge of being a student and escort!
I consider that the biggest "challenge" in this combination was managing the stigma of the job and the fear that I would be judged if for any reason people I knew found out about the work I was doing. This was of course something I got over quite quickly. Of course, when you work in this business, you find out pretty quickly that if you are discreet and careful, then you can easily manage who will know about your profession and who won't.
After all these years, I feel proud of my work and lucky to have people in my life who I trust and know what I do and are okay with it.
Of course I admire women who are completely open about their profession and don't have an issue with everyone knowing exactly what they do. But personally I have chosen to keep one part of my life separate from the other.
The difference between male and female customers!
It's a question I've been asked several times. If we only have male clients. The answer is no. It's much rarer to find yourself with a woman and when you do it's usually a couple.
Any experienced The Call Girl, will tell you that every client you see (regardless of gender) is unique and each of us tries to appreciate this fact and use this uniqueness to make the result better for the client and for us.
The biggest difference, in my experience, is communication. Women need a lot of talking before the date. They want to know a lot of details, they analyze even the smallest detail, before they enter the process of making an appointment with companion. I don't find it bad, of course, on the contrary. By knowing all the details, exactly what the other person is looking for and exactly what you have to offer, you can clearly offer your services much better. It's all very clear, with no little loopholes or last-minute demands. Of course, many male customers do the same. But basically, it's a female characteristic.
Also, women as customers need the emotional part of the experience more. On dates with women, I always spend a lot of time talking, massaging, playing. Generally women give a huge role to foreplay and not to the act itself.
Personally I think of course that the reason why women act this way when they are with a professional in the field has to do with the fact that they feel somewhat uncomfortable with their choice. Perhaps somewhere deep down they feel they are doing something "wrong" and are trying to bring the experience as close as possible to being with a woman outside of the profession to make them feel better.
I'd like to see women more liberated and comfortable with sex, escorts, fetishes, etc. I think regardless of gender, we need to embrace our sexuality and be able to do what we believe is right to be fulfilled and happy. To live our fantasies and have a good time. No taboos!
Are all the customers ugly, weird, old, etc.?
This is also a question that I think everyone has in terms of call girls and the answer is no, no and no.
As we have said before, it is not necessary for a man to have an issue to choose an escort. It can be a matter of time, not being willing to look/date, fetish or whatever.
This automatically implies that a man has nothing wrong with choosing an escort. Of course there are also clients who are very old or not good looking or with some other problems. But this is not the norm.
There are people who are unique and different. Everyone has needs and we are here to listen to them and meet them. In our work you find a lot of bad, but at the same time you find a lot of good. Just like in any other job that deals with people, but also in your personal life every day.
In general, to conclude, I will stress that around our profession there are many myths!!! We're not all at work because someone made us. Our clients aren't curious that they can't find sex somewhere else. Not all of our clients are men. Like many other things, it just so happens that our profession is taboo and quite misunderstood. I just hope that in the future this will change!
