Who doesn't like playing with himself ?? Whoever says no, we know he is just lying. It is healthy, it is normal, it is beautiful, it is necessary.
But what most people haven't tried is to masturbate with their partner!
Yes, you listened well! Together!
What is Mutual Masturbation?
It is when you masturbate with your partner, practically and practically at the same time that you do it to yourself, she does it to her. Of course there is the case of doing only one of the two and having the same interest, but we will discuss this below.
Some people feel a little weird or embarrassed to try it, since they have linked masturbation to loneliness and have become accustomed to never being seen or having to hide to do so.
You don't know what you're missing out on unless you try it!
Why masturbate in front of your partner when you can do it alone?
Reasonable question and we will explain immediately why this is a great idea!
- It may, as a preliminary, provide you with the same satisfaction as oral or other toys.
- You will feel that you are doing a show for your partner and that for you, which as a role play can be great! Men and women argue that it is extremely irritating to see your partner playing with himself. The erection, the humidity, the bites on the lips. It's voluptuous!
- It is a fact that each of us knows his body well and knows what he likes. So why not transfer this knowledge to our partner? This will help your partner to see and learn, just like you did for her. You learn how to love each other, which along the way will make sex better among you.
- As we mentioned in the beginning, one of the two can play. So if you want to make it even more interesting, you can tie your partner's arms in bed and sit opposite her, playing with yourself or vice versa. The image and feel will be magical. The impatience of when you will be solved, the more you want to touch each other, the images that will stimulate the imagination .. Overall the experience will lead to explosive orgasms.
How to recommend it? How to put it in the program?
You can recommend it in a number of ways. Send your partner a message throughout the day telling her how much you would love to see each other touching themselves. Tell her how sexy you would find her and you would definitely intrigue her imagination.
You can also create an atmosphere. Put music on, light candles and ask her to relax and suggest a new experience. Explain to her how nice it would be to play with each other and if she wants arguments, we told you above!
You can also bring it to the game through preliminary! After you have enough irritated her while you lick her, stop, look at her, embrace her and tell her how much you would love to show her how to touch her!
If your partner is not comfortable with any of the above, try putting it in the Role Play program. Think of a scenario and suggest that you try it. This will make it feel like it's another and will be easier to let go.
And then what ??
Once you put it in the game, feel comfortable, enjoy yourself in a place you like and the game starts. Make sure you have direct eye contact with your partner. The ideal is to be opposite each other to get a better picture. Try sitting in bed or on the couch facing each other.
You can also sit opposite each other and ask your partner to open her legs and pass them over yours, so they will be close enough to feel her breath and be able to kiss her. anytime. The kiss helps.
Ideas to make it even more interesting:
- In this game, you can easily put your favorite vibrator or any other sex toy you prefer.
- Talk dirty to each other. You can tell your partner what you do and how much you like what you do or ask her to do the same !!
- It's the perfect time to share your fantasies. You are both irritated, your sexuality is on the rise. It will surely appeal to both of you to fill in images of sexy things that will uplift you. And who knows, maybe you can do it soon too.
- If your partner is open minded. Try porn! Find something to know that both of you are up and watching it together.
In general it is something that you can bring exactly to your needs, try it in infinite ways and eventually find the golden cut. Experiment and you will find it to be a great experience for both of you.
