“Edging.”
Our lives are fast-paced and clearly demanding.
We are looking for solutions and practices to make our everyday life and our life easy.
From ordering takeaway, to doing our supermarket shopping through apps on our mobile phones.
We want everything fast...
Has this finally affected our bed? ;
It seems that increased stress takes away the pleasure, because we want everything to be done quickly and stressfully.
This has contributed to the phenomenon of premature ejaculation that many men now experience.
What does the “poet” mean? ;
A new trend is coming to change the way we think about sex.
Yes, the term has become known recently but this practice was used years ago in sex life counselling.
“Edging” is the technique in which while you are about to climax, whether you are a man or a woman, you interrupt the process.
The purpose of this is to have stronger orgasms.
Of course, it is a practice that requires practice until you reach the ideal result.
ΕIn essence, you're holding back the momentum of orgasm to double the pleasure.
Because the sexual tension that builds up leads (mostly) to explosions.
It is a Method which is quite heavily rumoured on the internet to offer intense orgasms.
Sexologists have partly agreed with the effect of edging, always bearing in mind that pleasure is subjective and different for each of us.
What are the benefits? ;
It helps us to have more control over our body and greater awareness of the sensations we experience during the sex.
On the other hand, it makes us acquire other balances that involve the smoothness and balance of things.
Sometimes we forget that there is also the pleasure of waiting.
But it takes patience and perseverance to finally achieve our goal.
Premature ejaculation
On the occasion of “edging” we can refer to this common sexual dysfunction that 1 in 5 men have to deal with regardless of age.
Premature ejaculation is defined as a sexual act that is usually completed within 1-2 minutes of penetration and climax occurs quickly and with little control.
In essence, this dysfunction does not allow the man to enjoy the sexual act because the phase of arousal and eventually orgasm are very close together.
In large epidemiological studies 90% of men reported completing within 1 minute, while the remaining 10% in 2-3 minutes.
This short duration is based on the lack of control a man has over ejaculation.
Basic physical causes leading to dysfunction
- Diseases of the prostate
- Erectile dysfunction
- Hyperthyroidism
- Use of psychotropic substances
Basic psychological causes
- Stress
- Anxiety about performance during sexual intercourse
- Low self-confidence/self-esteem
- Difficulties in relationships/negative experiences
The result is that the person's self-esteem is shaken, and he or she may experience anxiety, shame, frustration and depression.
Closed mouths
Despite the fact that the phenomenon is very common, this condition has the most incomplete diagnosis and treatment.
Premature ejaculation is difficult to diagnose and treat because men keep it quiet, either out of shame and guilt, or because they believe (wrongly) that there is no treatment that can restore their sexual health.
Treatment
Don't waste your time using double condoms, local anaesthetics, masturbation before intercourse and preparations of dubious quality and effect.
The qualified doctor (sexologist/andrologist) will recommend the appropriate treatment, which will be achieved either with the use of pharmaceuticals and psychosexual therapy, or with psychosexual therapy alone.
