Swingers: Types, selection and play

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Swinging

Or the exchange of sex partners, is a sex life-related attitude, outside of a monogamous context.
Through this exchange, men and women have the opportunity to have sex with other couples.
It is not a new phenomenon as it was a custom of liberated couples in the late 60s and some factors have further strengthened it, such as the creation of a contraceptive pill, the discovery of sexually transmitted diseases and the adoption of safe sex in general in the 1980s. .
For the last 10-15 years it has been popular with couples in Greece and monopolized the interest of even free men and women. women

Items

Same room : Couples called "same room", are the ones who just look.
Soft swingers : The second category relates to couples who only touch / ridicule etc, without penetration.
Full swingers : In the third category belong the couples who do everything.

Some are married, with children, for many years, others have a long-term relationship and want to experiment and get out of their usual routine just like married people.
Others are in a free relationship and want to include others in foreplay and others start out of curiosity, to see what this place is like.
Within these categories, there are both heterosexuals and bisexuals.

First contact

Usually the acquaintances made through site-club.
But also in the places where the game takes place.
Like swingers nightclubs or hotels and cruises related to swinging.

The choice

The first and foremost criterion of choice is the nice, thoughtful look and hygiene which is a prerequisite for swingers. 
Beyond that, chemistry will also play an important role. Especially, about whether there will be next meetings with the respective couple.
Couples come closer, talk first, and if there is interest in a game, either men or women or women with men, or women with women or, respectively, start the erotic game.

The game

A great base is given to the precaution and everything is done using a condom and cleanliness is the most essential part. 
Couples usually meet in swingers clubs, which have been in Athens for several years.
There are also appointments that take place directly in hotels after meeting online.
Whether meeting in neutral spaces before deciding to exchange partners.
Respect plays a predominant role for everyone involved with this lifestyle.
If a swinger says "no" to something. It is the other person's duty to respect it and not to insist. 

Polygamy and multi-sexuality

Swinging is not infidelity, according to his followers.
It is different because nothing is done behind anyone's back.
Everything is obvious, there is honesty and all this requires the consent of both.

Confidentiality

The most basic ingredient of the recipe.
Obviously, you do not easily reveal to your surroundings about your new trends.
Nor do you betray couples and your connection to them.
There is an unwritten law associated with these sites and it has to do with confidentiality. 
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