A foot fetish is a sexual interest in feet. In other words, your feet, toes, and ankles are irritating.
This particular preference for feet may vary from person to person.
Some people get irritated just by looking at feet. Others may find painted nails, jewelry or other foot adornments attractive!
Still others derive sexual satisfaction from foot care, such as massages or pedicures.
Foot fetish is considered a dominant sexual attraction!
A study found that fetishes related to parts of the human body were the most prevalent fetishes. Foot fetish represented almost 50% of the preferences of this group of people.
Feet are considered the most fetish part of the body, apart from the genitals.
Just like clothing preferences or music styles, sexual preferences and fetishes vary!
Each person is attracted to – or even repelled by – things that others may consider abnormal.
So, it's not clear what is attractive about feet, but there have been a few theories to explain why some people are just drawn to feet and playing with them.
BDSM elements
Your feet are covered with nerve endings, and nerve endings create intense sensations.
Tickling, rubbing and massaging can make the feet feel even better.
A psychological element of foot lust is humiliation. Feet are often considered "down" by people. That is, some people think of the feet as a humble part of the body.
This creates a dynamic that some people find attractive!
They like to feel "under" by their partner. They enjoy having your legs on their bodies as a form of power play or putting them in place!
Submission and dominance is a power play for some couples. Legs are only one part of this logic.
If your partner has a foot fetish, they may want you to treat them like a human footstool. They find satisfaction in letting you dominate them so they can worship at your feet!
If you have a foot fetish, you may find it exciting to kneel at your partner's feet, worship them, caress them and reduce yourself! You may encourage them to put their paws all over your body, forcing you into submission!
Heels and tights
Shoe and sock fetishes are associated with foot lust! Many people who love feet may also have a special interest in shoes, jewelry, or other foot adornments!
Some people prefer bare feet. They love the unobstructed view of the entire leg, top to bottom!
Others may enjoy flip-flops or sandals that only expose a bit of the feet!
High heels also attract the attention of those with wet feet. In fact, many adult sites have categories for people with an attraction to heels!
Socks, pantyhose can also appeal to foot wet/fetish people!
How to talk to your partner about leg pain
These tips can help open up the conversation!
These ideas can help you decide if it's something you'd like to try.
Games and fetishes are a fun way for couples to get to know each other and shake things up in the bedroom!
If your partner has recently shown an interest in feet, you may have questions about what it entails and how to manage it.
Listen and ask questions
Not everyone has a positive reaction when a partner tells them about their interest in feet. This can make foot fetish revelations unsettling! If your partner has been honest with you, that's a positive sign!
They may shamelessly tell you that they just think your feet are attractive or that they really like a particular shoe you're wearing!
They may reveal their interest in feet by offering to massage yours after a long day! They might ask you to kiss your feet during sex!
Everyone's interests are different, so you need to hear from your partner what they like best.
You don't owe your partner an answer at that moment. Ask them to give you time to think!
If feet are just a no-go zone for you, this is important to know, both for you and your partner.
Try having your feet massaged first until you feel comfortable. If you don't like something, speak up. Honesty is essential!
I was a 22-year-old Greek woman
The right approach
While your partner may not share the same interest in feet as you, they may have other curiosities they'd like to explore!
Being honest about your fetish allows you both to find fun new activities that you both enjoy!
Alize for sore feet
If you've ever had a negative reaction to telling a partner that you like feet, you may be hesitant to bring it up with a new partner. But being true to yourself, your fetishes and your preferences is vital to the relationship!
Consent for any sexual activity is key, including play!
The wrong time to approach the subject is very important. Look for opportunities like when the two of you are relaxing together or when you're out shopping.
Mention that you like to rub your feet or that you like the way your feet look in certain shoes. This can open up the conversation and not become pushy at all! Your partner may have many questions.
Be prepared to discuss and engage in honest dialogue. A willingness to talk about when and how you discovered this interest is a good start!
